CRITICISM

Did you ever imagine, if there were no opposition in parliament! Would there be any improvement? Would the government be functioning properly? NO! It is quite obvious that opposing gives us more option. Same applies with criticism. As Plutarch quoted: “I do not need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod, my shadows does that much better.” It is clear that to polish a knife one will definitely need a red stone, which is rough. We too need this irony. If there is no mirror we simply cannot recognize the concealed faults we have. Criticism is one such truth revealing mirror, which can be in a variety of friends and haters and people who envy us.

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It adds to a quote by Jake Roberts, which reads as: ” Every moment is an experience.” But more often we’re in the midst of pessimists who fetter us. Those stound could be quite depressing. All the nefarious vibes from the malevolent critics who mock and humiliate us and ruins our every step taken by their supercilious smirks. Those evil actions and their words leave us in pejoration.

Instead of those deeds destroying us, it should be taken as an opportunity to grow, enhance and better ourselves. As Dale Carnegie explains it in a humurous way, “When fate throws a lemon at you, make lemonade.”           Also Peter Drucker quotes that, “Knowledge has to be improved, challenge and increased constantly or it vanishes.” All these remind me of a quote from GAME OF THRONES where Tyrion say to Jon, “Always wear your flaws like an armour and it shall never be used against you.” At last I would leave it to you to conceive it in you own way with a few words from Elbert Hubbard, who quotes: “The final proof of greatness lies in being able to endure critism without resentment”.

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IF I TRIUMPH, WILL I DESERVE IT?

Solitary is this mind when this body is secluded from other bones and brains. In that little stound, multitude of thoughts strike my timorous mind just like neutrons, during an atomic fission. Constantly the serene conscious is bombarded with the stream of questions: What is life all about? What is the purpose? If I take up a work, will I succeed? If I triumph will that victory be mine? Will I deserve it? Will I be the most deserved, or would it be someone else?

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None of us know who the real unsung hero of our victory is? Who dragged you away from your turmoil and shove you to endure your destiny? There is always at least one hand which constantly upheavals your attempts and makes sure your strands are clear. Will you thank that hand? Do you even know whose hands it was? It could be anyone, your parents, friends, an unknown well wisher, who knows? That well wisher per forces the attempts made in the most concealing way that we never make out who it actually was. So who’d be the deserving one? One who is submissive before starting and has no clairvoyance towards the future success or one who painstakingly asserts faith in you and fulfills your arduous desire with a positive connotation. It is clear from the words of  ZIG ZAGGLER that one who motivates is someone to be praised, as he quotes, “Motivation is the fuel necessary to keep the human engine running.”                                                                                                        Or as we know   CRITICISM IS THE BEST WAY TO GROW   Without criticism things would just not be interesting. There would be no amusement left. As Thomas Paine said, “The Harder The Conflict, The more Glorious The Triumph.”  So who is the most deserved in your success? Who would be more deserved in mine? No one knows. I’ve been many-a-times obstructed by the heinous acts of others, probably haters. Could never actually decry pt the truth, or their malevolent intentions. Some times you can simply tell from someone’s evil demeanor and sometimes you simply cannot interpret the nefarious trot of their evil mind. There’s a slender difference between  both. Never got skeptical enough to notice. Did you? Did you ever get curious? Who’d be the actual winner? Who’d be the deserving one? One who wronged us and fettered us because as CONFUCIUS said, “To be wronged is nothing useless until you remember it.”  Or will it you who has fallen many a times but because of your strong determination, still kept on going. Convinced by Denis Waitley who says,” Determination gives you the resolve to keep going in spite of the road blocks that lay before you.” Or one who upheavals you and thrust you forward. Or will it be veiled intentions of contemptuous soul who fettered you and mocked you in their own hideous way which left a perpetual mark on you. It is that perpetual mark that forced you to thrive past your weakness and strive for a better result. Agreeing with Gill Stern who said, “Both optimists and pessimists contribute to our society. The optimists invents the airplane and the pessimist the parachute.”

So now be skeptical and guess who’s the deserved one? One who averted or one who shove? Or is it you who kept on struggling and never gave up. Or is it all of them? The question still remains unanswered. Hitherto it should be all clear but no, the solitary mind never gets satisfied. Again and again it asks the same question; “IF I TRIUMPH, WILL I DESERVE IT?”